"With all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love."
Part of the difficulty you may face as you continue in this 30-day challenge to encourage your husband is that you really are struggling to find positive things to praise. Perhaps the problem is not with your husband. Have you checked your own heart?
Sometimes we get disillusioned because of our own unreasonable or unrealistic expectations (Prov. 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.). It may not be that our mates are doing something wrong; it's simply that we expect too much in some areas.
Our expectations must be met in God alone, and then we will have the right perspective to ask God for the healing and grace we need to respond to others.
How sad that we give more grace to others than to those in our own homes. Today, try to look at your husband through eyes of grace. Verbally thank your husband for what he is already doing.
Pray that your husband's relationship with God and His Word will bear fruit in his life. Pray that he will be a man of wisdom and understanding, fearing the Lord.
Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil.
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
Praise the Lord. Blessed is the man who fears the Lord, who finds great delight in his commands.
Unreasonable expectations and assuming your mate has mind-reading capabilities are a bad combo! This is an area I need to work on.